Monday, 9 May 2016

Ronke Shonde death: Floodgates open as other Nigerian ladies share their domestic violence experience

This is the story of Nkiruka. She shared it on on Instagram following the sad news of Ronke Shonde who was allegedly killed by her husband who is now in hiding (as at the time of this report). 

“The domestic violent story that led to the death of Ronke Bewaija Shonde today broke my heart  and took me back to memory lane. Yes that is my ex husband and I, I was just 19 years on that photo. you can see the innocence in my eyes.


We where perfect , very perfect , outside but we fought inside .
You see that smile on that picture was plastic .
I was beaten to the alter on my wedding day .
What happened because I was tired and refused to pack plate .
I swallowed it and matched to the altar .
With tears In my eyes the pastor asked will you take him as your husband for better for worse , till death do you part?? Tears rolled down my eyes but the crowed clapped , screaming tears of joy.
I embarked on the journey of marriage .
At the age of 19 years I endured like a lion .
This fine young man here is an animal .
He beat me up and even beat up my younger ones . The day he beat me to coma , he was beating my lifeless body before he was stopped and I was rushed to the hospital .
Do you know what my mother-in-law told me as I gained consciousness , she said (Nkiru, lucky will beat you again o, get ready cause the father beat me too).
I went back in to coma .
He begged and I went back home .
This continued until I decided to face reality .
But the truth is , do you know why we women endure domestic violence ???